My tiny man... he knows what I want. This little man, he showers me with love, unconditional. But when I think about what it would feel like to be truly loved, the one word that comes to mind is 'safety'. I think that is something many women yearn for. 

You are looking for someone who communicates not out of obligation, but devotion. That one that reaches for you emotionally, not just physically. The one who makes you feel more you, not less. That doesn't correct you, but embraces you. The one who doesn’t punish your openness, but mirrors it. 

This is the frequency that you are calling in, Divine Feminine hearts. This is your frequency now. This is also why the old way, the old dynamic, feels like friction to you, and makes you want to bolt for the hills. 

That’s why the old dynamic feels like friction. You stood in the space where you had to prove yourself again and again. It felt like you were earning only crumbs and being the emotionally mature one. You felt like you were holding space for someone while yours remained unheld. This leaves you hoping that someone will rise to meet you. 

You can show someone softness, fire, and give them the invitation to build. But don't build the house alone. Let someone show up for you. Let in someone who responds immediately when you reach out. Someone who will initiate a plan. You want someone that leads with consistency, not confusion.  

It's not different than what I started with. This little man, he also wants someone that gives him lovies, and treats, and cuddles, and shows up (comes back home) every day to him. This may be the type of consistent relationship you have in your life, but it's teaching you. You are worth love. That little guy/girl looks at you like chicken, and that's how you know you are loved. 

Also, his little nose is healed. And I loved nurturing him through it. We all love Oliver, don't we? Yes, if you follow the channel, you love him.