Openly, many of the Divine Masculine energies went through significant trauma in their past relationships and this makes leaving their karmic structure a tricky situation. Thought toxic, it has become the only stability and intimacy they've had, and they grow accustomed to this. This leaves the Divine Feminine feeling unstable in this situation, especially when you care deeply for someone who is struggling to move on from an abusive relationship or who is emotionally unavailable due to past trauma. The emotional complexity of the situation can make it really difficult to walk away, even if you know it's not healthy for you. 

You may now want to admit it but when you care for someone, especially someone who might be going through a difficult time, it's natural to want to help them heal or hope that things will improve. You may hold on to the hope that with time, things will change, and they will be able to commit to building something solid with you. This hope can create a powerful emotional attachment, which makes it hard to let go, even when the relationship feels unstable.

Their back-and-forth behavior can leave you in a state of emotional limbo, where you don’t feel entirely loved or valued, but you also fear what life will be like without that connection. It can also cause a constant emotional cycle of highs and lows. The brief moments of closeness or affection can make you feel seen and loved, and those moments can outweigh the moments of emotional distance or rejection. This unpredictable dynamic can be addictive in a sense, making it harder to break free, even though you feel unstable.

What I feel is that when you know that this person is dealing with emotional or psychological scars from an abusive relationship, you may feel empathy for their struggle. It can make you feel like walking away is abandoning them at a time when they need support, creating an ongoing cycle where things are never fully resolved. Without closure, it's hard to truly move on. 

However, all of your love aside, if the person you're interested in can’t commit, you might start questioning if you’re "enough" or if you’re doing something wrong. This self-doubt can create a sense of insecurity, making it harder to walk away and protect yourself emotionally. It can feel terrifying to walk away because you might feel like you're losing a peice of yourself, but the piece you see in them is already within yourself. 

Take time to reflect on your own needs and feelings. Consider whether staying in this situation is helping you grow or whether it’s keeping you stuck. Understanding your emotions and boundaries can provide clarity on whether walking away is necessary for your own well-being. If they reach out, be clear about your expectations for stability and commitment and maybe it will help create some structure, even if the other person isn't ready to meet you there yet.

If they are emotionally unavailable or struggling with their past trauma, it's essential to focus on your own emotional health and healing as well. Ensure that you’re not losing yourself in trying to fix someone else.

Walking away from a relationship, especially when emotions are involved, is never easy, and in these divine frequencies seems almost undoable. But staying in a situation that feels unstable and unsatisfying can take a toll on your well-being. Ultimately, you deserve a relationship that is fulfilling, stable, and healthy—one that allows you both to grow and commit to each other in a meaningful way. Walking away isn't about not loving them, it is about love. Your heart carnot enable their struggles. Let go and let them work through it. Love yourself and what is meant for you will never pass you by. If it isn’t meant for you, a healthy option will show up. 

Until then, be kind to yourself and be graceful with your heart. You cannot build a life with someone who is building and planting somewhere else. The tree divided no longer grows. Be able to plant your own seed if needed, and walk away ... at least until they are ready. We don't stop moving forward to wait because this life is shorter than we think.